Sex isn’t a thing that exists
separate from the rest of our lives.
How we show up in our intimate connections is shaped by aspects that aren’t necessarily sexual: the relationship with our selves. Our sense of safety. The relationship with our bodies. Our routines. The things that we have learned to believe about humans and their relations. Communication pitfalls.
Many of us seek fulfilling sexual and intimate connection in life. Yet few of us ever come to examine the entanglement between our habits and beliefs and how we show up in the bedroom. And why would we: rarely do people teach us to.
I would like to change that. My work is about supporting you to discover what ecosystem your sexual life is embedded in — and how to make that ecosystem more hospitable for the connected and fulfilling experiences all of us deserve. At its core is the recognition that the body remembers, and that it is through the body that we connect deeper with all facets of our selves, including the sensual and intimate parts.
Your sexual life grows out of safety, rest, the stories you’ve been told, the rhythm of your days, and the trust you have in your own skin.
Tend the soil. The bloom follows.